Most of my career has involved fixing things. As a graphic designer, I solved creative problems for my clients, creating signage that clarified a shopping experience or packaging that communicated information about a product. As a professional organizer, I have done even more fixing, helping my clients create a functional closet space or filing system. It feels good to solve a problem and I love doing this with clients. I always assumed that fixing problems was in my job description. So when I was introduced to the concept of NCRW in the first coaching class I took, it rocked my assumptions. NCRW is the idea that our clients are Naturally Creative Resourceful and Whole. This concept accepts that people are inherently creative and, with support, have the resources within themselves to solve their challenges. They are not broken, not a problem to be fixed. They are whole in this moment, just as they are. NCRW is a revolutionary concept and the one that I and many of my classmates felt led to the single biggest shift in our thinking during the eight-week class. Of course, NCRW applies not just to clients, but to everyone in our lives, including ourselves. When I was introduced to NCRW, it challenged my assumption that to help people something had to be “fixed.” I started seeing how I was trying to “fix” everything and everyone. I always thought I had a better way, a more useful tool, and a better answer. Wow. It was humbling to realize that prior to coaching, I did not view myself or others as NCRW, I was in constant fix-it mode. To be an effective coach, it’s important to put aside the role of being a fixer and be present with your client. The client is in charge of the agenda, and the coach's role is to help them discover their strengths, passions, and motivations to create a more fulfilling life. Yes, we look at challenges, but we don’t dwell there. This approach is not about fixing something broken, but rather about helping the client create a life that fits. Embracing the concept of NCRW has been liberating both professionally and personally. My question for you: How does it feel to try on the idea of being Naturally Creative Resourceful and Whole? We so often focus on our flaws. Can you embrace that you are OK in this moment, imperfections and all? If you like this post then you may like What Coaching Is and Is Not. Don't miss my newsletter, Find Your Focus. It’s full of useful and practical ways to bridge the gap between knowing and doing to help you reach your goals. Newsletter subscribers also receive special discounts and first access to upcoming group coaching offers and memberships.
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